I heard from an ole USMC buddy that I was real close too, back in the day.
He's married to girl (who I like), she's a really nice girl, very pretty, she loves her husband more than anything, but she's horrible with finances. He let's her handle the bills (why I don't know) Back when I was tight with him, it was problems with them being overdrawn all the time, bouncing checks and such.
Well I heard from him a few days ago and they fixed that problem but he told me they've run up a pretty big credit card debt/bill.
I ask him what the hell was she charging and he said mostly stuff for their kid.
Then he asked me something that caught me off guard. Did I think he should divorce her? I was kind of taken off guard. I mean, I went through a lot of crap with this guy and he's my boy, but I really like her, but I think she makes no effort in changing the way she deals with money.
Question is would you advise your friend to get a divorce over this? I'm not going to tell him either way but I can see both sides.