Thanks for the updat Katy... I figured it was some formal. Also, I knew the football recruit was a red herring. He was lokking elsewhere, this gave him a face saving way. I am sure Stoops was not unprepared for this kids choice.
BTW, I can't remember when, late 70s, early or late 80s, but didn't SAE get into bad trouble with either pledge hazing, drinking or road trip, something bad happening? I remember lots of For Sale signs being stolen around town and being put onto the SAE front lawn... Could be false memories as wel.