My youngest kid is a big boy. He's 12 years old and can be very shy around people he doesn't know, but is bigger than most of the kids in his class. Today, a kid (that runs his mouth constantly) called him "fat", and it really upset the boy. Now, I know everyone thinks there kids are the best, but I am not embellishing at all when I say that the boy is an absolute animal on the football field. He is almost too aggressive at times, but is smart enough to bottle it up and unleash it at the right time. I tell you that kernel of information, because he is the exact opposite of that off of the field. Instead of frightening the other kid into keeping his mouth shut, he lets it get to him and gets upset.
Now, I'm in the position to guide him on how to proceed with this kid. Having been through similar situations with my oldest son (who is 16 and 6'6" now), I told him to ignore the kid and be the better person. But, I have to admit, if the boy stands up to this punk, and should happen to put him on his butt, I wouldn't be too upset. Is that bad?