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    At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS

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    Are you just worried what anyone else thinks? Really, who gives a ****? As long as you two are compatible in all the ways that matter - values, beliefs, sex and money - and can have intelligent conversations and fun, that's all that really matters. And, you go, girl!

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    My parents were 11 years apart in age. I say go for it!
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    My 3rd wife was 11 years younger than me.
    Wait, she was also my 3rd ex.
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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    Quote Originally Posted by okiegirl View Post
    At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS
    Is your concern that some people may talk? Social customs and norms have changed so much that age differences, women dating and marrying younger men, interracial couples, are becoming less and less of an issue. As I get older, I care less and less about "social norms." Who cares?

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    [Soonerstormchaser]I see nothing wrong with that.[/Soonerstormchaser]

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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    If he's your fiancee, then I think you've already decided.

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    The cut off, in my mind, is 25. As I get older, the potential gap grows.
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    I have had one wife who was five years older than me and two others that were around 15 years younger than me. I don't think it matters.

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    I'm dating a girl 15 years younger than I am.


    My daughters say as long as the girls I date aren't younger than they are then I'm fine. (They're 27, 24, and 23)
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    You know what I always say....the fun thing about banging sixty eight year olds is that there is 60 of em!
    Like my old grand daddy used to say, "The less a man makes declarative statements, the less apt he is to look foolish in retrospect."


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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    Quote Originally Posted by okiegirl View Post
    At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS
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    My aunt and uncle are 16 years apart and have been happily married for 20 years.

    He was her high-school teacher at one point...
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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    The woman should never ever be older.

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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    Quote Originally Posted by SicEmBaylor View Post
    The woman should never ever be older.
    Why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3rdgensooner View Post
    Why?
    No logical reason other than the fact that it sort of freaks me out.

    I met this adorable ginger at Baylor who was a sophomore when I was a fish. She was AdPi and ended up crushing* me twice. I liked her a lot, but I stood her up both times because the idea of dating someone older than me just freaked me out. She wasn't even a full year older. I didn't know my love life would end up being so ****ty, so I sort of wish I had gone. Oh well...missed opportunities are my thing.

    *The sororities at Baylor have two "crush" events each year (one a semester). They're these big parties and each sorority member "crushes" a guy they want to attend the eevent with him. This is done by giving them a "crush t-shirt." Crush shirts are somewhat sought after. I took the shirts, but didn't go to the event. I just wanted the shirt even though AdPi is way the hell down the sorority ladder.

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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    My grandfather and grandmother were about 15 years apart and happily married for 50+ years.

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    You are an interesting bloke, SicEm.

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    Re: Cut-Off age???

    My wife is a year and a half older than me.
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    I believe in making the world safe for our children, but not our children's children, because I don't think children should be having sex.

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