All the talk about the memoirs of the Tiger Mother who raised her daughters the Chinese way...
never allowed sleepovers
no playdates
never allowed child to choose extracurricular activities
no TV
no video games
must make A's in all subjects
must be #1 student in all subjects except PE and Drama
not allowed to be in an afterschool play
not allowed to complain about not being in an afterschool play
must play piano and violin
no musical instruments except piano and violin
I fell a bit short of being a tiger parent.
The rules I had were:
try your best in school.
never miss school - funerals and illnesses should be reserved for weekends
you're not allowed to not do anything re: extracurricular activities.
I don't care how late you stayed up, you're not sleeping all day.