So here's a question folks..

[SoonerBK]

First let me say that although my post count is very low like the forehead on a Wal Mart cashier, I have been around here for a while. So I expect quite a few sarcastic, useless answers. Thats cool. I also know that soonerfans.com is not the best place for advice, but there are some intelligent straight thinking (and talking) okies out there I would like to bounce a scenario off of. Here we go.
So basically after nearly seven years of marriage, my wife has decided that she NEVER intends to have any kids. She is younger than me (27) so I've never really pressured her. I wasn't ready at 27. I'm 34 and even now am not pressuring her. I just want the door left open, and would prefer not to be 60 when they are 18. Not sure what to do. Otherwise things are pretty good between us. I never intended to get a dee-vorce but this is kind of a deal breaker for me. Thoughts?

[saucysoonergal]

As a parent of teenagers, I would say she is very intelligent.

[The]

Replace birth control with tic-tacs.

Get her drunk and don't pull out.

[tommieharris91]

Just think of all the $$$ you will have that kiddos would have turned into ****...

[The]

As a parent of teenagers, I would say she is very intelligent.

This. Having kids is a foolish, foolish decision. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, it's just Misery Loves Company. Enjoy Life, Stay Childless!

/too late for me

[stoops the eternal pimp]

Replace birth control with tic-tacs.

Get her drunk and don't pull out.

This worked for me

[saucysoonergal]

Plus, you said she is 27...she is a woman and very likely will change her mind. She has a least a decade of time to think about it.

[soonerchk]

Become a sperm donor for a nice lesbian couple.

[3rdgensooner]

I never intended to get a dee-vorce but this is kind of a deal breaker for me. Thoughts?

It seems you've answered your own question.

[soonerchk]

It seems you've answered your own question.

Listen to this, she's a professional.

[SoonerBK]

I think what has me rattled is the NEVER word. I'm really not in a major rush. I'm cool waiting a few more years. Here's her reasons which I can relate to, but I'm sure the ladies can:

Kind of a rough childhood-lots of divorce and drama
doesn't want the responsibility
does'nt want her body to go in the tank.

Her stance also really bothers me. Basically it's: I don't want kids, and you do so I wont blame you if you need to move on and make that happen. Like she's given up or something. Just here's where I stand and that's it. Let me know what you decide to do. Sheesh. Give me something to work with.

[soonerchk]

Serious answer. Counseling. If she won't go, go without her.

But I still think the sperm donor for lesbians option has potential.

[The]

Serious answer. Counseling. If she won't go, go without her.

But I still think the sperm donor for lesbians option has potential.

Counseling is for chicks and homos. Real men would keep her uterus swimming in semen for months.

[stoops the eternal pimp]

tell her you want to stay married to her but you re gonna bone other women until one of them gets preggers

[3rdgensooner]

Her stance also really bothers me. Basically it's: I don't want kids, and you do so I wont blame you if you need to move on and make that happen. Like she's given up or something. Just here's where I stand and that's it. Let me know what you decide to do. Sheesh. Give me something to work with.

I can understand why you're discouraged. Her response sounds a little planned out.

[Oldnslo]

counseling: yes.

otherwise you may find yourself donating sperm not only to lesbians but also to completely heterosexual women who may wish to assist you with your desire to future-proof your genetic code.

[The]

Two questions that need to be answered:
1. Is she hot?
2. Can you do better?

[SoonerBK]

Serious answer. Counseling. If she won't go, go without her.

But I still think the sperm donor for lesbians option has potential.

Yeah we've got some scheduled. The counseling not the other, although that doesn't sound bad. We have a lot of fun together, and she's really quite the catch. College Grad, Teacher, Hottie, Ran the full OKC marathon, A really good little Sooner Fan. Been to every game this year 'cept last week.

[SoonerBK]

Two questions that need to be answered:
1. Is she hot?
2. Can you do better?

Smoking Hot.
Not sure I can.

[Tulsa_Fireman]

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