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BTW, I divorced OperaMan

Discussion in 'South Oval' started by proud gonzo, Jul 16, 2013.

  1. proud gonzo

    proud gonzo SoonerFans.com Elite Member

    I dunno how many of you who know me still visit this place, but I just thought I'd put a little note. I haven't exactly publicized it much--I've kind of been waiting until it comes up, because I'm not sure what to do when people give me the sad eyes and say they're so sorry I'm going through this. Because I'm not sad, and I'm certainly not sorry. Not like the divorce process was enjoyable, but the result certainly is. I'm quite happy about it, actually, because I'm actually happy now instead of just pretending to be. In terms of the legal part, things were mostly amicable, though that didn't stop him from slandering me to everyone he knows. Whatever.

    1. No, I don't know when his next opera is. I won't be attending or keeping up with that any more.
    2. No, I don't know if he'll be singing the anthem again this year.
    3. No, you don't need to send the posse after him. He probably deserves it, but he's not worth the effort.

    That about sums it up. Divorced, back to my maiden name, very happy.
    picasso likes this.
  2. Wow..I had no clue...You are egg-cellent at hiding things..

    Well..Congratulations on being happy!
  3. olevetonahill

    olevetonahill Well-Known Member

    Its Your Life Hon, You have to MAKE YOU happy.
    Just sorry it dint work out.
  4. Mjcpr

    Mjcpr SoonerFans.com Elite Member

    Does this mean the opera tailgates are over?
  5. badger

    badger Vacuums eat while yelling

  6. Fraggle145

    Fraggle145 Drunky Town Limnologist

    Sorry to hear. As a side note its nice to see an familiar face that we havent seen around in a while.
  7. soonersweetie

    soonersweetie Well-Known Member

    Good for you, doing what makes you happy!!! :)
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  8. proud gonzo

    proud gonzo SoonerFans.com Elite Member

    Thanks, guys. He's bipolar (refuses therapy or treatment for it) so the happy, outgoing person y'all met at the tailgates isn't the same person I was living with. That kind of made things difficult to explain to anyone...
  9. sas

    sas New Member

    Very sorry. At least no kids involved.
  10. smc

    smc New Member

  11. badger

    badger Vacuums eat while yelling

  12. olevetonahill

    olevetonahill Well-Known Member

    Dont sweat it hon. Let em Rant.Im figuring they are either Jealous or Very insecure.
  13. badger

    badger Vacuums eat while yelling

    It doesn't matter what they are, vet. If I don't spend every day trying to be a better person myself, it's a wasted day :)

    So once again, my apologies to all I have ever upset or offended
    FirstandGoal likes this.
  14. I apologize for what I just did in the restroom.
  15. olevetonahill

    olevetonahill Well-Known Member

    You go Girl, yer a better man than me. I say **** em if they cant take a joke
  16. sas

    sas New Member

    I can't speak for others but I suspect there's a big difference between "offend" and "annoy".
  17. olevetonahill

    olevetonahill Well-Known Member

    If I have Offended OR Annoyed anyone in any way. Please feel free to Go **** yerself. Please take this in the spirit it was intended.
  18. badger

    badger Vacuums eat while yelling

    Then I also apologize for annoying. :)
  19. olevetonahill

    olevetonahill Well-Known Member

    Now Yer annoying me . LOL
  20. FirstandGoal

    FirstandGoal New Member

    Been there, done that and even when the result is for the best it still sucks.

    I can totally relate to the happiness aspect of it when the dust finally clears.....

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