Sorry to hear really PG. Been through that myself and it stinks no matter how much better you feel after. If that makes sense.
I've been divorced now for almost 8 years. At the time I didn't think it, but now I'm convinced it was the best decision I ever made. Sounds like you've come to that conclusion yourself. So congratulations on the start of a new life.
For pillow talk we could discuss the constitutional merits of secession and contemporary efforts to nullify Federal law. This is what I try to tempt all the wimmins with. I am alone. =(