A question for the SO peeps...

[yermom]

so, how long should your friends wait until hitting on your ex-girlfriend?

how close of an acquaintance is acceptable?

and no, this doesn't involve doleo in any way :D

[C&CDean]

So, what you're really saying is that Doleo hit the ex in the pooper?

[yermom]

yeah, that's not happening

[C&CDean]

Why? Just cause she never let you venture up the Hershey Highway doesn't mean our boy Doleo ain't coppin' a little Snickers on the side.

[jk the sooner fan]

there's a man law commercial about this.....i think they agreed you have to wait 6 months.....unless she's REALLY hot, then its like 4 weeks

[yermom]

Why? Just cause she never let you venture up the Hershey Highway doesn't mean our boy Doleo ain't coppin' a little Snickers on the side.

it has less to do with the Hershey Highway and more to do with doleo :D

[Blue]

Best friends- Never.

Friends you don't really want to lose- 1 year at least.

Friends that you could stand to lose- "What are you doing Saturday?"

[yermom]

well, i guess i know where i stand then...

[jk the sooner fan]

no, you'll have a better idea where you stand if she agree's to go out with him

[yermom]

yeah, that's not happening either...

all my friends suck :D

[Blue]

If the girlfriend was a very serious one, I stand by my post. 1-6 months, who cares.

[oumartin]

there is no time limit. Heck its okay to do it while she is attached. If she ever looks at you she is askin' for it! :D

[sanantoniosooner]

you gotta work that out for yourself man.

I think there are too many factors to have a hard rule. Was the break up bad? Was the friendship treated with respect?

You have to talk to the friend if it's worth keeping the friendship.

[yermom]

the breakup wasn't bad, we are basically still friends

i'm not getting ****ed, but i do think it's a little fast


i think it's a lot funnier than she does :D

[jk the sooner fan]

you broke up with the chick that used to come to tailgates? :(

sorry to hear that - unless of course you wanted it......then HOOORAYYYY for you

[oumartin]

well any girl that would split with you is outta her mind!


I'm not joking here

[sanantoniosooner]

the breakup wasn't bad, we are basically still friends

i'm not getting ****ed, but i do think it's a little fast


i think it's a lot funnier than she does :D
did either of them approach you before hooking up?

[sooner_born_1960]

imho, the key to this whole post is "ex". Why do you care when or who she dates?

[yermom]

did either of them approach you before hooking up?

you are giving these guys too much credit ;)


imho, the key to this whole post is "ex". Why do you care when or who she dates?

that is kinda my view, i'm just curious about the generally accepted guideline


well any girl that would split with you is outta her mind!


I'm not joking here

are you coming on to me?

[sanantoniosooner]

imho, the key to this whole post is "ex". Why do you care when or who she dates?
unless his buddy is an "ex" also, it still affects him. And it speaks to the friendship to a degree.

[Rogue]

I can't believe this thread has gone on this long without a couple of obligatory SO comments. Turn in your cards. For at least a week.

Is she hawt?

This thread is worthless without pics.

[yermom]

i know, i know and i should do her in the pooper

i beat you guys to it :D

(she's posted here on occasion and there is a pic around here somewhere)

[jk the sooner fan]

i know, i know and i should do her in the pooper

i beat you guys to it :D

i think you have to give her a LOT of jewelry before you make that move

[oumartin]

Yermon you are way to good for me. I am very clingy

[oumartin]

and btw, I would run them both over! I am of the mindset if I can't have her (even if I don't want her) nobody can!

[soonerboomer93]

i don't think i've ever hit on a friends ex but 1 time and that was a 1/2 assed drunken attempt to do her in the pooper

[soonerboy_odanorth]

I don't know... I tend to think even if it's a good friend you can let it go pretty quickly...

Look him in the eye and say, "I know you don't know where my penis has been.... but she does."

If that doesn't turn him off then you can just shrug it off as maybe it was meant to be...

[picasso]

Best friends- Never.

Friends you don't really want to lose- 1 year at least.

Friends that you could stand to lose- "What are you doing Saturday?"
yep. one of my best friends hit up on a chick I went out with a few times, who I really didn't even like. he made his move while we were out at a bar one night.

wasn't cool and almost ended our friendship.

[Beef]

I think the proper response is to do her sister and then do your friends sister. That should cover the bases.

[JohnnyMack]

Don't listen to these morans, listen to me.

1. Call the ex.

2. Have the ex over.

3. Have drinks (I suggest replacing the vodka with everclear) and serving something fruity that chicks dig.

4. Get her wasted.

5. Put your finger in her butt.

[soonerboomer93]

I think the proper response is to do her sister and then do your friends sister. That should cover the bases.


you missed the mother, but only if she's a ****

[picasso]

Don't listen to these morans, listen to me.

1. Call the ex.

2. Have the ex over.

3. Have drinks (I suggest replacing the vodka with everclear) and serving something fruity that chicks dig.

4. Get her wasted.

5. Put your finger in her butt.
too analytical.

[colleyvillesooner]

W.W.S'.E.D. ?

[Fraggle145]

the breakup wasn't bad, we are basically still friends

i'm not getting ****ed, but i do think it's a little fast


i think it's a lot funnier than she does :D

I think you prolly have to remember that she developed friendships/knowledge of these people while dating you so it may happen a little faster. people have dated my exes before, basically I say its not really a hard and fast rule... If you get ****ed then it is too soon. If you will always get ****ed then it is never. I think this because if it is your friend then it is bros before hos and the bitch can wait. If you really arent ****ed you wouldnt think it was fast, JMHO, because you wouldnt care at all. The real question is: Are you at a level of ****ed that it is acceptable for you to just suck it up and not worry about it?

[MamaMia]

so, how long should your friends wait until hitting on your ex-girlfriend?

how close of an acquaintance is acceptable?

and no, this doesn't involve doleo in any way :D
I have had the same group of girlfriends since we were in training bras. One reason we have remained friends for 40 years is because we don't dip our brushes in each others blushes......ever.

[sanantoniosooner]

I have had the same group of girlfriends since we were in training bras. One reason we have remained friends for 40 years is because we don't dip our brushes in each others blushes......ever.
Did you have pillow fights?

Tell me you had pillow fights.:O

[Blue]

we don't dip our brushes in each others blushes......ever.

That's just dirty...

[picasso]

Did you have pillow fights?

Tell me you had pillow fights.:O
I always ask my old lady if her book club has pillow fights in their panties after their parties.:D

[sooner_born_1960]

Well, do they?

[soonerboomer93]

oh, and aren't the rules different for gf's and **** buddies

'cause shouldn't a **** buddy be fair game?

[soonerboomer93]

I always ask my old lady if her book club has pillow fights in their panties after their parties.:D


the answer could be worthless without pics...

[picasso]

Well, do they?
naw man, cause you know I'd be joining me up some book clubs.:D

[MamaMia]

Did you have pillow fights?

Tell me you had pillow fights.:OWe had slumber parties almost every weekend, so yes we had lots of pillow fights in our baby doll pajamas and big hair rollers. There was no such thing as blow dryers and curling irons in those days. :P

[Blue]

Nekkid pillow fights...?

[goingoneight]

so, how long should your friends wait until hitting on your ex-girlfriend?

how close of an acquaintance is acceptable?

and no, this doesn't involve doleo in any way :D


Depends, is she hawt? Just sayin'... errr... askin'.

[picasso]

Nekkid pillow fights...?
oh they had pillows alright.

[Jimminy Crimson]

'cause shouldn't a **** buddy be fair game?

Not if you're still ****in' her! :texan: