Cut-Off age???

[okiegirl]

At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals:) I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS :)

[A Sooner in Texas]

Are you just worried what anyone else thinks? Really, who gives a ****? As long as you two are compatible in all the ways that matter - values, beliefs, sex and money - and can have intelligent conversations and fun, that's all that really matters. And, you go, girl!

[OutlandTrophy]

My parents were 11 years apart in age. I say go for it!

[AlbqSooner]

My 3rd wife was 11 years younger than me.
Wait, she was also my 3rd ex.:chargrined:

[lexsooner]

At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals:) I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS :)

Is your concern that some people may talk? Social customs and norms have changed so much that age differences, women dating and marrying younger men, interracial couples, are becoming less and less of an issue. As I get older, I care less and less about "social norms." Who cares?

[Boomer.....]

I see nothing wrong with that.

[3rdgensooner]

If he's your fiancee, then I think you've already decided.

[KantoSooner]

The cut off, in my mind, is 25. As I get older, the potential gap grows.

[GDC]

I have had one wife who was five years older than me and two others that were around 15 years younger than me. I don't think it matters.

[Wishboned]

I'm dating a girl 15 years younger than I am.


My daughters say as long as the girls I date aren't younger than they are then I'm fine. (They're 27, 24, and 23)

[setem]

You know what I always say....the fun thing about banging sixty eight year olds is that there is 60 of em!

[BillyBall]

At what age should you say it is too young? My fiancee is 11 years younger than me, at times I feel I am robbing a cradle....but we are both well above 35 years old....so how do you decide????...oh and no pre-hs ages..I am only asking about two legals:) I am 11 years older than him, so at times I get nervous...what do you all think? THANKS :)

I thought SoonerStormChaser was already taken?

[SoonerStud615]

My aunt and uncle are 16 years apart and have been happily married for 20 years.

He was her high-school teacher at one point...:distress:

[SicEmBaylor]

The woman should never ever be older.

[3rdgensooner]

The woman should never ever be older.Why?

[SicEmBaylor]

Why?
No logical reason other than the fact that it sort of freaks me out.

I met this adorable ginger at Baylor who was a sophomore when I was a fish. She was AdPi and ended up crushing* me twice. I liked her a lot, but I stood her up both times because the idea of dating someone older than me just freaked me out. She wasn't even a full year older. I didn't know my love life would end up being so ****ty, so I sort of wish I had gone. Oh well...missed opportunities are my thing.

*The sororities at Baylor have two "crush" events each year (one a semester). They're these big parties and each sorority member "crushes" a guy they want to attend the eevent with him. This is done by giving them a "crush t-shirt." Crush shirts are somewhat sought after. I took the shirts, but didn't go to the event. I just wanted the shirt even though AdPi is way the hell down the sorority ladder.

[SicEmBaylor]

My grandfather and grandmother were about 15 years apart and happily married for 50+ years.

[3rdgensooner]

You are an interesting bloke, SicEm.

[SoonerStud615]

My wife is a year and a half older than me. :victorious:

[soonerbrat]

cougarlife.com

you're welcome.

[3rdgensooner]

On another note, kudos to SicEm on his new sigline. :slowclap


cougarlife.com

you're welcome.What do they call men who hunt for younger women?

[SicEmBaylor]

What do they call men who hunt for younger women?

Men.

[GDC]

On another note, kudos to SicEm on his new sigline. :slowclap

What do they call men who hunt for younger women?

Sugar daddies?

[Jacie]

Hugh Hefner probably once swore he'd never marry a girl more than 50 years his junior but he didn't figure he'd want to walk the aisle at 80 . . .

[soonerbrat]

On another note, kudos to SicEm on his new sigline. :slowclap

What do they call men who hunt for younger women?

creepy

[SanJoaquinSooner]

Actually, I don't think John Bobbitt was all that much older than his wife, Lorena.

[BudSooner]

What do they call men who hunt for younger women?BudSooner?

[BudSooner]

Wait, y'all meant dating....I got caught thinking about chasing tail.

Carry on.

[3rdgensooner]

Wait, y'all meant dating....I got caught thinking about chasing tail.

That's what a "cougar" does. So yeah, I was wondering about the male equivalent.

[OUDoc]

Someone needs to write a book on SicEm.

[BillyBall]

creepy

I don't understand this at all.

[Flagstaffsooner]

Someone needs to write a book on SicEm.

They already have, Portnoy's Complaint .:jaded:

[crawfish]

Age / 2 + 7

[thecynic]

my wife is four years older than me. but I don't know why it should matter either way

[proud gonzo]

I'm 26, my husband is 37. If people mistake one of you for the other's parent or grandparent, the age difference is too big. Other than that, who gives a crap?

[Midtowner]

Family law attorney here.

In my experience, which is purely anecdotal, but actually might somehow also be statistically valid, if the woman is a lot older, that's a problem. If the man is a lot older, game on.

[C&CDean]

Family law attorney here.

In my experience, which is purely anecdotal, but actually might somehow also be statistically valid, if the woman is a lot older, that's a problem. If the man is a lot older, game on.

This.

Men become distinguished as they age. Women become old - with the obvious exception of momma. She's like fine wine.

















She was standing right over my shoulder...

[Frozen Sooner]

Age / 2 + 7

Biblical, yo.

[C&CDean]

Who's age?

[northspeter]

your both over 35... who gives a f@ck??

[MR2-Sooner86]

That's what I love about high school chicks. I get older but they stay the same age :D

[Sooner_Tuf]

When I was young I liked older gals now that I am old I like younger ones. It works out pretty well this way. Older women seem to love young guys and with the costs of things these days young women just about need an old guy.

[Oldnslo]

I've also heard of (age/2) +7. Biblical? I didn't know that.

I'm 5 months younger than my wife of 22 years. Not that she's 22; we've been married that long.

[proud gonzo]

btw, marrying a guy who's eleven years younger than you doesn't make you a cradle robber, it makes you a cougar. let's get the term straight. It also, statistically, means you'll have a 20% higher mortality rate than a woman married to a man her own age. Men who marry younger women, on the other hand, have a 10% lower mortality rate. So, good for me; bad for you.

[Peach Fuzz]

I'm so about to hit up this new cougar website.. Bout damn time this comes out

[3rdgensooner]

I think cougar's are technically older women who troll for younger men at bars & clubs. I don't think they want to keep/marry them.

[soonerbrat]

This.

Men become distinguished as they age. Women become old - with the obvious exception of momma. She's like fine wine.

















She was standing right over my shoulder...



:mad:

[Peach Fuzz]

I think cougar's are technically older women who troll for younger men at bars & clubs. I don't think they want to keep/marry them.

Annnnd I have no problem with that at all. I could use a sugar momma :D