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Leroy Lizard
11/25/2010, 05:37 PM
Kinky!

By the way, Thanksgiving is so boring until you get to eat... unless you're at the Miller's home.


AP) — A pastor who barred church officials from using Facebook, saying it can lead to adultery, is temporarily stepping down from the pulpit following his admission that he engaged in a three-way sexual relationship a decade ago.

The Rev. Cedric Miller made worldwide headlines last week when he urged congregants at his Living Word Christian Fellowship Church in Neptune, N.J., to drop their Facebook accounts because he believes the social networking site facilitates affairs.

Days later, Miller offered to step down after The Asbury Park Press reported on a 10-year-old affair of his own involving a three-way sexual relationship with his wife and a male church assistant.

On Wednesday, Miller told The Associated Press that he would be "taking some time off" following a church vote Tuesday night on his status as senior pastor. He said he will resume his pastorate "eventually."

He says church members gave him a vote of confidence, subject to some restrictions he wouldn't list.

The church had no immediate comment.

Last week, Miller had ordered about 50 married church officials to delete their Facebook accounts or resign from their leadership positions. He also suggested that married members of the congregation do likewise, and said he was deleting his own account.

Miller said he made the request because 20 couples among the 1,100 members of his flock had run into marital trouble over the last six months after a spouse connected with an ex-flame over Facebook.

At Sunday's service, Miller, with his wife by his side, asked church leaders to support him in light of his own affair.

"For any pain that my past mistakes has caused you, I again ask for your forgiveness," the pastor said from the pulpit.

Facebook has not responded to messages seeking comment.


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sooner59
11/25/2010, 05:59 PM
I'm actually more surprised when this doesn't happen nowadays.

usaosooner
11/25/2010, 06:44 PM
people who cheat would cheat regardless of facebook.. props for the Rev for deflecting this onto social networking

GKeeper316
11/25/2010, 07:07 PM
dp the rev's wife?

Leroy Lizard
11/26/2010, 01:54 AM
How do they arrange this? I can understand working a deal with some stranger, but how do you ask your aide at the church to hop on in on your wife? How do you even begin the conversation? "Nick... uhhh, what do you think of my sweet cheeks over there? Do you want to come over and have sex with her? If so, would you mind if I join in?"

WTF?

MR2-Sooner86
11/26/2010, 07:41 AM
http://graphjam.wordpress.com/files/2009/04/song-chart-memes-find-closet.jpg

AlboSooner
11/26/2010, 09:47 AM
I don't think this quite fulfills the "Christian pastor caught in his own hypocrisy" niche we all crave. I don't know why this is news or why facebook would need to comment on it.

I hope people are allowed to move away from their mistakes after 10 years.

Breadburner
11/26/2010, 09:54 AM
Looks like he was a member on F**Kbook........

Leroy Lizard
11/26/2010, 02:28 PM
I don't think this quite fulfills the "Christian pastor caught in his own hypocrisy" niche we all crave. I don't know why this is news or why facebook would need to comment on it.

I hope people are allowed to move away from their mistakes after 10 years.

It wasn't a judgment call gone awry, so it wasn't a mistake. They knew what they were doing was wrong.

But I see your point. They failed to live up to their commitment, but they are, in fact, only human. Jimmy Swaggart had the same problems.