Ok heres the Deal on the Prayer thingy

[olevetonahill]

One of our posters here needs em . The whole family actually .
I aint gonna say Much cept Im sure they are needed .

[FirstandGoal]

In

[soonersweetie]

Prayers are being sent, may they all be safe, well and out of harm's way

[VeeJay]

Prayers sent.

[soonerboomer93]

in

[SoonerGirl06]

Thoughts and prayers are with them.

If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know.

[olevetonahill]

I cant even Begin to Imgaein the Pain this Family Is going thru .

[StoopTroup]

You know I'm in.

[Newbomb Turk]

they got it.

[royalfan5]

in

[BoogercountySooner]

In for Sho!!

[sooner_born_1960]

I just said a prayer for the whole family.

[OCUDad]

IN

[HskrGrl]

:( I'm praying!!!

[OUDoc]

Thank you guys very much. It is appreciated by me and my family.

[PhxSooner]

Doc, so sorry.:(

[nmsoonergirl]

Just saw this, doc.
Lots of prayers for you all. I'm so sorry.

[Howzit]

T, you let me know if there is anything I can do. Seriously.

[olevetonahill]

OUdocs Daughter was found buried in a shallow grave . Im sure Yall heard the storey
Jaux Is gonna set up a Paypal thing sos we can send some flowers from Us here On the SO
Keep Him an his Family Lifted up , I cant even begin to Imagin the pain .

[olevetonahill]

T, you let me know if there is anything I can do. Seriously.
Ditto

[Chuck Bao]

I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[olevetonahill]

Heres some of the Info Doc sent me

That would be nice. Thank you all very much.
Flowers are enough, but if anyone wanted to do any more, there will also be a memorial fund from the Putnam City School foundation (her dad works for the school district). The address for donations is:
Lauren Jay Barnes Memorial Fund c/o First Bethany Bank, P.O. Box 218, Bethany, OK 73008
Doc has always been a class guy on here .

[Flagstaffsooner]

Prayers and thoughts from the Mountain, Doc.

[Hamhock]

what??

[Harry Beanbag]

Seriously? Apparently I missed something huge around here.

[SoonerBOI]

Doc, so sorry to hear that...Heartfelt prayers on your way...

[Sooner24]

I just read the story on newsok. Prayers for your whole family. Her being pregnant just makes it twice as tragic. :(

[bluedogok]

Let us know the details when you get them vet....

Here are some articles in The Oklahoman.
A giver of life, she got death (http://newsok.com/article/3175940/1196486037)

Police find missing woman's body (http://newsok.com/article/3175386)

[Okieflyer]

This is horrible. Sorry to that Doc. Your family is in our prayers.

[usmc-sooner]

Damn my prayers go out to Doc. I totally missed this. Terrible news.

[Hamhock]

words seem so insufficient.

I hope you are able to feel God's grace through this tragedy.

[Harry Beanbag]

OMG. That is truly tragic news. Prayers for you and your family Doc.

[GottaHavePride]

WTF?

I can't think of any words adequate in this situation.

[Jerk]

Damn. I don't even know what to say.

I hope they fry the d0uchebag who did it.:mad:

[Frozen Sooner]

My God, Doc.

I can't express how sad this makes me for you, so I won't try. Anything I can do, let me know.

[olevetonahill]

You may send $ to my paypal acct at:
[email protected]

- Put OUDoc somewhere in the note.
- I will assume your $ goes to a funeral floral arrangement unless you say otherwise. The otherwise is the memorial fund OleVet mentioned.
Lauren Jay Barnes Memorial Fund c/o First Bethany Bank, P.O. Box 218, Bethany, OK 73008

- Put your username somewhere in the paypal note IF you want it mentioned. IF NOT, don't let me see it.

Send me peems if you have questions.

Sounds good . Jim . If we get more than needed for Flowers the excess should be sent to The fund thing

[jk the sooner fan]

:(

Doc - so sorry to hear this, none of us can imagine what you are dealing with....god be with you and your family

[HskrGrl]

Oh my gosh!!! :( I was just reading a news story about that this morning and was already praying for the family. My heart breaks for you, Doc! :(

[proud gonzo]

holy crap, that's terrible. I don't even know what to say.

[olevetonahill]

Got mine sent , I hope we raise enough to get a Nice arraignment , and Make a decent donation in her Name .

[TopDaugIn2000]

Wow. My coworker and I were just talking about this yesterday at lunch. He is a part time sherrif's deputy and was going to join the search after work. I had no idea it was Doc's daughter. Prayers to all of the family. I'm heartbroken for each and every one of you.

[OCUDad]

Doc, I believe in an earlier post you indicated she was your step-daughter. That tells me there are two sets of parents in grief right now. Good thoughts and prayers for you all. So sorry.

[Cam]

Prayers sent for all affected here.

[Mongo]

sorry for your loss Doc. Prayers sent

[SoonerGirl06]

I am so terribly sorry for your family's loss.

There are no amount of words that can bring comfort during this very difficult time, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lauren and Avery are in the loving embrace of God and surrounded by his angels.

[GrapevineSooner]

I've been off the board the last few days while tending to an ear infection. I can't even begin to imagine what your family is going through, Doc.

Many, many thoughts and prayers to your family.

[Boomer.....]

So, so sorry Doc. Prayers sent.

[ChickSoonerFan]

So sorry to hear the tragic news. I can't imagine the pain and sorrow involved. So sad.

Prayers sent.

[Mjcpr]

I'm sorry to hear of your loss, Doc.

:(

[StoopTroup]

You may send $ to my paypal acct at:
[email protected]
Done.

God Bless you and your Family Doc.

StoopTroup and Family

[OUinFLA]

Doc, my prayers are coming you way.
I am so sorry for your loss.
May God comfort you at this time.

[crawfish]

Oh my lord. I am so sorry for you and your family, Doc. :(

You will be our thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine the pain you're going through right now.

[olevetonahill]

Heres an Update I got from Doc In a peem



. My daughter is Lauren Jay Barnes (you probably knew this stuff, I'm just trying to think of what you guys would need.)
Services will be held at Putnam City Baptist Church (11401 N. Rockwell) on Tuesday, December 4, 2007, at 2 p.m. with interment to follow at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens (8701 NW Expressway). Funeral home is Bill Merritt Funeral Service, 6201 Northwest 39th Expressway (405) 789-5622. Services aren't until Tuesday afternoon, so make sure they don't send any flowers until Monday. Thanks, Howard.

So please get your bucks to Jaux as soon as possible if you can so we can do something Nice fer Doc and his family
Yall are Great

[OKC-SLC]

Doc, I don't know what to say. I'm shocked, and I cannot imagine what you and the rest of the family must be going through. Certainly, you are in our prayers.

[RacerX]

God Bless Lauren, your family, and all of Lauren's loved ones.

[ultimatesooner1]

damn, prayers going Doc's way

I have kept up with this story since it is so close to home but I had not idea it was so close to a poster to here

[olevetonahill]

Stuff like this just makes ya realise the Game of Footballl Is after all Just a game .
Jim say Yall have been great , Please keep it up
Doc Is One Of My best loved here !

[crawfish]

Stuff like this just makes ya realise the Game of Footballl Is after all Just a game .
Jim say Yall have been great , Please keep it up
Doc Is One Of My best loved here !

Amen to that.

[boomersooner28]

So so sorry Doc. Many prayers for you and your family. She is in a better place.

[Soonrboy]

so sorry to hear, Doc. I hate that anyone has to go through such a horrific time. Prayers for peace and comfort to you and all those touched by this tragedy.

[stoops the eternal pimp]

God,

We raise up this hurting family to you. Please send your Comforter to help ease their pain as they go through this. We ask that you give wisdom to the officials looking into this and that whoever is guilty will be brought to justice quickly. Hear the prayers of the SO family and thank you for answering.

money sent...pm me if more is needed

[85Sooner]

AI am at work and just read this and I can't help but cry. Doc I can't imagine your pain. I am sitting here just in physical pain. My prayers of love and hope go to you and your entire family. May God Bless you all in every way possible.

[Sooner Born Sooner Bred]

Doc, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family,

Jaux, I just sent a donation but i forgot to put my screenname on it.

[Oldnslo]

I had no idea. So very sorry, Doc. My family's thoughts and prayers to yours.

[yermom]

i had just heard on the news that they found her. i just got back into town and had still been hoping she'd turn up alive :(

then i see this thread.

i'm so sorry, Doc, i know that can't be too much help right now though.

[opksooner]

Doc, May you and yours be comforted in your grief.

I'm so sorry.

[Sooner Born Sooner Bred]

Well done Jaux. Well done.

[Fraggle145]

Sorry Doc.

[olevetonahill]

Jaux Spek to you Bro .

[LilSooner]

Doc words can not explain how sorry we are your family will be in our prayers.

[Fugue]

:(
I'm very sorry Doc.

[M]

I'm so sorry, Doc. I can't even imagine. Prayers to you and everyone involved.

[Norm In Norman]

Doc - I haven't been on here much to see this tragedy was related to you. Sorry doesn't do much right now but it's about all I can say. Since I've missed out on the flowers, my cheap *** is going to send some money to that fund. The Norm family sends it's prayers and we are thinking of you. If there is anything else we can do let us know. Seriously.

[IB4OU2]

I just read this...

Doc may God hold and comfort you and your family and provide healing to you and your family as he has done through you to help heal and comfort so many others. My heart and prayers are with you always.

-Steve

[Mixer!]

^^^^^^^^
What they all said, Doc. I'm so sorry to read about this. Prayers sent.



Steve

[NormanPride]

God bless you and your family, Doc... Both badger and I will be praying. If there is anything we can do, let us know.

[BlondeSoonerGirl]

:(

[Sooner in Tampa]

:(

Doc...the only thing that I can say is May God Bless you and your family in these trying times.

I cannot even begin to fathom the depth of your loss.:(

[BigRedJed]

Just saw this. All the best to you and your family, Doc. How awful.

[frankensooner]

I am so sorry.

[TexasSooner01]

I just saw this, I havent been on in a while. What a horrible tradgedy. My prayers are with the family.

[Scott D]

my condolences can't be enough Doc. I can't imagine what you are going through right now.

[soonersweetie]

Doc,

My heart is saddened by this terrible news and tragedy for you and your family. We have a little girl ourselves and I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are going through. Our prayers are being sent to you and your loved ones and if you need anything, please let someone know.

Don't try to deal with everything yourself. We are all here to help.

[MamaMia]

Doc, I am so very sorry to hear this. My family and I will be sending prayers from our hearts to Gods. :(

[SoonerJack]

Man, this really puts things in perspective. Doc I've never had the pleasure of meeting you but know that we are praying for you and your family. Football just doesn't seem so important now.

[SoonerStormchaser]

Jaux,
I dropped some $$ your way. If you need more for Doc, lemme know.

Doc,
I know I was really hurting after the loss of my two little beans this past year, but I can't even hold a candle to what you must be going through. I will pray for you tonight harder than for me to pass my final checkride tomorrow (and believe me, I'm praying hard for that).

If anyone else knows anything I can do to help from down here, peem me.

[Sooner Born Sooner Bred]

They just said on KOCO that Lauren's service was open to the public tomorrow. I will be in Washington, DC or else I would go to be there in support of the family.

[Williesan]

I just now saw this and... I'm just speachless. :(

Prayers to your family OUDoc from ours.

Williesan.

[Jimminy Crimson]

Prayers to you and your family, Doc. :(

[olevetonahill]

If you choose to contribute please send $ to the:

Lauren Jay Barnes Memorial Fund
c/o First Bethany Bank
P.O. Box 218, Bethany, OK 73008

Please DO NOT send any more $ to me. Thank you.
Today I sent our check for $375 to that fund.
Your a Good man Jim , Glad you could set this up .
I have great ideas , Just No idea how to pull it off , So I get Great folks like you :cool:

[LilSooner]

If you choose to contribute please send $ to the:

Lauren Jay Barnes Memorial Fund
c/o First Bethany Bank
P.O. Box 218, Bethany, OK 73008

Please DO NOT send any more $ to me. Thank you.
Today I sent our check for $375 to that fund.


Done check went out today. Thanks again for letting us know the information.

[Soonerus]

Doc, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...you have always been a great guy on SF and I feel like a friend has been wronged...I am with you and your family and prayers are extended ...any way I can help, I am available...

[Soonerus]

...additional prayers to the family...

[swardboy]

This world can be so dark....I pray you find His light in your family, your friends, and your faith...

[Ike]

Doc, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family this month. I can't even imagine...

[SoonerKnight]

Doc,

I am so sorry to hear the news. This is a bit late but you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Words really don't seem to be adequate.

Sincerely,

SoonerKnight

[Partial Qualifier]

"Doc", my thoughts have been with Lauren and her family throughout this ordeal. I was very, very sad to learn you are a part of her family. If there's anything at all I can do to help, anything, please let me know. Seriously. Babysit, mow your yard, whatever.

My family and I are very sorry to hear about your loss. We send supportive thoughts and prayers your way, every day.

On a different note, it's times like this I wish we had some sort of alternate, "eye for an eye" justice system. I'm hurt for you, and sad, but also madder than hell about this.

[leavingthezoo]

still sending prayers and heartwhispers your way.

:(

[OUDoc]

Thank you all. The flowers from SF.com were the first to arrive at my house and the first to arrive at the funeral home. Reading the cards actually put a smile on my face, something that hasn't been easy to do over the past 2 weeks.
I really thought I could write a nice "thank you" to you all, but words aren't enough. I hope you'll never need to know how much the support you all have given helped me and my family during these dark times. Thank you again from all of us.
-Tanner

[TUSooner]

Oh, Doc. Oh Doc.
I'm so sad and stunned. In my ignorance and misplaced attention, I just learned of it this minute. I was speechless and lost my composure for a while. It's so untterly horrible to contemplate.
I pray for blessings of peace and whatever else there is to help you.
God be with you.
Kevin

[Boomer_Sooner_sax]

Doc, I just read this. All of our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family! I had ready about it the last couple of days as I like to keep up with news back home, but never saw this thread until now. May God bless you and your entire family through this ordeal!

[Sooner Born Sooner Bred]

Doc, are you and the rest of the family hanging in there ok? I was in DC yesterday and today, but you all were in my constant thought and prayer.

[Tailwind]

There are no words. Hugs to your whole family.And tears.Many tears. Babet

[FaninAma]

Doc,

I don't have the words to express my shock and sadness at your loss. I haven't been to the South Oval all week and thus had no idea that this tragedy could have happened to one of the SF. families.

I hope God gives you and your family understanding and comfort in time.

[r5TPsooner]

Doc, I don't know you to well but I know that we live in very close proximity to one another. If there is anything that this stranger can do to help you or your wife in this time of need... PM me!

If I lost my beautiful daughter, I probably wouldn't be able to function normally ever again. Please know that the tears that are flowing from my eyes right now feel your pain in the smallest of terms.

God bless.

[colleyvillesooner]

:( Prayers sent.

So sorry...

[Soonerbabeinbama]

Doc,
Saying I'm sorry seems so inadequate. I pray for God to wrap you and your family in his peace, warmth and comfort. The world is a very scary place, but God has a plan for all of us. I know God is holding Lauren and her baby in his arms and welcoming them to heaven. I have every confidence that they are at peace and without pain. I am sending God my loving prayers for you. Please know you are in my heart.